We want a better Life, so Why is CHANGE So HARD? (And how it can be easier!)

The New Year begins - so often there is a pull towards change...
we want to change our life, our bodies, our relationships, our world...

How about this year, we do it the Easy Way?
Let the horse lead the cart, not the other way around!

We don't Have to change everything, today.
We don't Have to rearrange our whole life.
Actually, we don't have to change anything at all on the physical, today.

Even if life has been Really Intense, and we feel at the end of our rope...
We don't Have to drop our agreements, divorce our partner, run from our kids, eschew our friends, quit our jobs, leave home with only a bindle (a hobo stick ;)

For the little or big shifts we want to see in our world,
for now, in our lives,
we can choose to keep our current plates spinning, stay on our current trajectory in our physical lives.  Because...

If we Really want to change
(not just rearrange chairs on the Titanic)
the place to begin, is within.

SO, Today, how about we:
Dedicate ourselves more deeply to our inward quest.

How about we start by getting our free-will back.
We can intend to find our freedom, permission, power, and spiritual senses... within.

Let nothing stop us on our soul journey, that leads to LIFE, Abundantly...

Our inner journey shifts our world - inside us and outside us -  it knocks our socks off!
It will for every one of us, it always does.
And from there, our outward life changes of its own accord, it has to!

When we intentionally shift on the inside,
the outward shifts practically take care of themselves.

When we say YES to Life (YES to God, YES to our Unique Way, YES to Light, Love, Truth... however you want to say it ;)
Then Life says YES right back to us!
That spurs a Wild Ride, inside and outside our skin.

So, if you Really want to Change, Heal, Grow, Transform:
Don't waste your time and energy trying to change on the outside - Rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic.
Instead, shift your inner world - Actually Turn the Boat!
Your life, and your world, will never be the same.


I just so happened to have recently posted on my Life, Abundantly blog, about getting out Free Will and our True Power back - instead of trying to use Willpower (which doesn't work ; ) - I hope you check it out!

Sometimes feel like a Round Peg in a Square Hole? (secret: we all do!) BE Life's Own Special NUT!

Some encouragement as we start this NEW Year:

Magic happens
when we let go and BE our True selves,
Truly DO our own thing...

You are Life's Own Special NUT!

We each have our own Spiritual DNA.
I am inimitably Me
you are inimitably You.

No one else can be who you are.
No one else can do what you do.
NO ONE!
so Let's SHINE!

If you do not be you and do your unique path,
your voice in the chorus is missing.
so Let's SING!

No one else can mature into the beautiful flower you are,
so Let's BLOOM!

No one else can share the fruit, the gifts, that you can,
where and how you can,
so Let's Come to FRUITION!

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You are not and never will be Bad or Wrong to miss this opportunity,
but you will miss your mark,
and the tremendous blessing it is for you to play your unique part;
and All your Relations will miss your inimitable self, as well as your unique contribution.

Let's not get sidetracked

• by playing small
• by replaying old songs that we don't even enjoy
• by trying to be someone else
• by doing it like someone told us to...

Please come PLAY, as YOU.
I will do my best to Play as Me.
See you on the field!

Question: Can you read the future?

I do not choose to read the future for folks, because I strongly believe in free will:

1) I do not want to program you to succumb-to or try to avoid a certain outcome that I might happen to see in your potential future.

2) I believe we can Always Spiritually Choose - energetically change direction and therefore our outcome.

3) I believe the best way to predict our future is to actively, powerfully, consciously co-create it (as the authority we are in our own space, our own life ; )

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Here is what I DO offer - together with you, I can:

1) Look at where you are now and the intentions, energy, momentum you have now.  i.e. If I see you going west, if you keep going, it looks like you will eventually end up in the water… unless you shift course.
Often I will see outcomes in terms of percentage, what I notice about your current chances of this or that. Keep in mind, there are A LOT of factors affecting us - including the behavior of others and events in the greater world…

2) Assist you to heal, spiritually change;
Shift course, habits, inertia;
Let-go of limits, lies, programming, emotions, beliefs
… to make what you want more possible for you and what you don't want less inevitable
(turn the Titanic ; )

3) Look at who you are, your unique path, and support you to actively co-create who you wanna be, what you wanna do, where you wanna go…

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More about our free-will:

• I don’t believe agreements during or before this life are unbreakable.
• I don’t believe the momentum of our choices or karma (reaping what we have sown) before or during this lifetime is unbreakable.

I do believe our lives are:

• ALL about healing, change, learning, growth transformation; 
• ALL about being in charge of ourselves and our life - having Dominion; 
• ALL about our Choices, as spiritually maturing actors (not re-actors), victors (not victims)

I do believe free will - getting it back, and applying it - is absolutely central to what we are here to learn, to mature-into, to enjoy in this world.
Therefore, I believe it is essential to:

• Stand (more and more) in the place of: "IT doesn’t happen to me, I happen to it!"
• Utilize this free-will muscle we are growing; to choose to Align- with, be fed-by, be led-by our Source - our Light, our Truth, our Life, our Unique Way.  (or NOT! :)

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So...
People will read your future.
But not me!
I believe I provide services that are much more useful than that.

Meanwhile, I hope you find the kind of assistance, that best serves you.
in life, Wendy

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An Abundance of Gratefulness - Shared Wisdom

An attitude of gratitude creates blessings.

-- Sir John Templeton

The enlightened give thanks for what most people take for granted.

As you begin to be grateful for what most people take for granted,

that vibration of gratitude makes you more receptive to good in your life.

-- Rev. Michael Beckwith

When you feel grateful, you become great, and eventually attract great things.

-- Plato

Many people are waiting for prosperity.

It cannot come in the future.

When you honor, acknowledge, and fully accept your present reality

- where you are, who you are, what you are doing right now -

when you fully accept what you have got,

you are grateful for what you have got,

grateful for what is,

grateful for Being.

Gratitude for the present moment and the fullness of life now is true prosperity.

It cannot come in the future.

Then, in time, that prosperity manifests for you in various ways.

-- Eckart Tolle in The Power of Now

When you are grateful fear disappears and abundance appears.

-- Anthony Robbins

Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life

actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.

-- Dr. Christiane Northrup, Author of Mother-Daughter Wisdom

Be grateful for what you have;

you'll end up having more.

If you concentrate on what you don't have,

you will never, ever have enough.

-- Oprah Winfrey

We can never bring anything to us unless we are grateful for what we have.

In fact, if somebody was completely and utterly grateful for everything,

they would never have to ask for anything,

because it would be given to them before they even asked.

That is the power of Gratitude.

-- Rhonda Byrne

If you are in the Seattle Area, I am offering a wonderful immersion in Abundance, Havingness, and Gratefulness:
Thanksgiving Healing Circle: Having Gratefulness, Sharing Abundance (Meditation)
Come Play!
-Wendy

Where we trip IS our Treasure: DIG!

Sometimes our Healing, Learning, Growth, Transformation…
takes a Giant Leap.
We say a BIG YES and magic happens, we are blessed, the stars align - and our lives move forward.

Sometimes our healing is easy, fun, fast, miraculous.
But...
Usually we progress incrementally: slowly-we-turn, step-by-step, inch-by-inch.

This is no mistake.
It isn’t a failure on our part, it doesn’t mean our Source is not Mighty or we are not Dedicated or Worthy…
We have Not Failed!

Our Journey toward who we already ARE,
our attainment of the Contributions that are already ours to offer,
takes Time, takes Attention, takes Intention.

On the way

• we HEAL from the wounds and the chains that have kept us down;
• we GROW through the barriers that held us back; learning to leap the hurdles we used-to avoid;
• we learn to SHINE our light, the Light; to truly BE ourselves, as well as BE the difference we want to see in the world.

And in this PROCESS, we discover Blessings and Glory beyond our wildest dreams.
Under our wounds and chains, beyond our barriers and hurdles:

• We find lost-parts of ourselves.
• We find lost abilities, senses, connections - both spiritual and physical.

• We allow-in wisdom, insights, and true knowing.
• We allow-in connection, confidence, charisma.

• We discover the Light in the Darkness, is within us - always here.
• We discover the One we have been waiting for, IS US - here, now - in partnership with our Source.

In this slow PROCESS, we receive the Dark Gifts... of Healing, Growing, Shining.
And we are So grateful-for these gifts!
Although we wouldn’t wish this Horrible path - the Horrors we lived, and faced, and conquered to get here - on our worst enemy!

And yet, on the other side of the darkness, when the day dawns
the Blessings of the Dark Journey start to be seen
we Are the Light, and we ARE Grateful.

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That’s what I have found, for myself and others,
When we don’t Heal in a snap, when we are stuck and stopped:
There is a reason: there’s gold in them there hills!

Where we trip IS our Treasure.
Start Digging!
Don't stop until you are blessed.

Best to you on your unique Healing Path!
Wendy

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Romantic love is a kind of preamble to the real thing

It is always shattering when romance begins to fade and problems mar our fantasy of perfect bliss.
But the days of romantic love are always numbered; this is nature’s design. 

Romantic love delivers an important message:
if you can figure out what it is that your partner secretly needs, the two of you can feel like this forever. 

In a way, romantic love is a kind of preamble to the real thing,
a foretaste of what you will experience
when you have negotiated the mine field of the power struggle and come out into the clearing of real love.

The passion of romantic love is based on fantasy and fueled by expectation,
whereas the passion in a conscious relationship is rooted in our memories of our healing experience with our partners. 

Romantic love is a time bomb; sooner or later, the explosion comes. 
But this is a part of the overall process.
The end of romantic love heralds the beginning of deeper spiritual evolution.

…Loving the Reality of my partner is the door to my own spiritual awakening.

(I would say *A* door, but whatever ; )
This is my favorite page, so far, in this wonderful book, I am slowly reading through:

Couples Companion: Meditations & Exercises for Getting the Love You Want: A Workbook for Couples by Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt

I have been a big fan of the Imago work by these folks for decades. 
Imago has given me great insight and practices in my intimate relationships.

{Guest Post} Certainty in our Soul/Psychic Information

{Guest Post by Kammy Pietraszek}

Knowing / Feeling are the clairs that I rely upon and trust the most 
- though it is and has been an ongoing journey / practice. 

Knowing / Feeling can be tricky to express to others - especially if you are not confident in yourself and/or your intuitive gifts 
- because they can't be "proven" to those you are reading for with pictures or clairaudience, which for some reason gives the readee more confidence in the information you are receiving. 

I've been asked so many times: "How do you know that?" 
And the only answer I often can, in truth, give is: 
"I don't know. I just know." 

When your info hits up against big resistance in a readee 
they can easily dismiss what you say 
if you do not own it and have certainty in your information. 

In dismissing your info, the readee dodges that pesky psychic info/healing bullet 
(even if that's what they've consciously told you they want) 
and the reader may receive invalidation energy if they are not: aware, in seniority, and clearing their own pictures. 

Over time I've learned that the only way to not end up constantly questioning my own information, and end up in the above situation is to learn to trust myself FIRST 
for no other reason than because I am in alignment with Source and with my highest self. 

And then I must get off my ass, and off my high horse, and be VIGILANT about being in alignment with Source and my highest self - ha! 

At the end of the day trust in myself and my own information is the only thing I have when all else has failed. 

You can "prove" your Knowing / Feeling info to yourself over time if that's what it takes by:

• constant conscious awareness of your energy and the energy of those around you, 
• not relying on others for validation (often it's when you are right-on about something that you will be invalidated the most), 
• not getting reliant / addicted / caught up in the validation of others (this can easily pull me out of neutrality and humility, which ultimately pulls me out of alignment with Source and my highest self), 
• research and perhaps even keeping a personal "certainty building" journal that can be looked at later to help build the case for yourself that you and your Knowing / Feeling info CAN be trusted. 

Then after all that BS, let it go, forget about it, and get on with your life. 
That's when the magic usually starts happening for me. 
Good luck!

{Guest Post by Kammy Pietraszek} 
 

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Is allowing the spiritual experience of love a challenging process?

Allowing the spiritual experience of love - Being love - is for many of us a process;
an often challenging process.
We could let it be easier… but we usually don’t ; )

Meanwhile, many of us can just let-go and BE Love a little bit more, right now!
We can allow ourselves to experience the Love that we Are, the Love that IS:

• In our Bodies: the love that Flows in and through us;
• As spirit - the love from which we come, in which we live, and to which we inevitably return…

Most of us can say Hello to the spiritual frequency, the song, of Love
in our conscious spiritual experience right Now,
even if only a shadow of the full-mind-blowing experience that is possible.

Some of us are so blocked, it is hard at first. 
But most of us can visit this place (this spiritual experience / focus / consciousness of Love)
- even though many of us are not ready to live there, full-time.

Most of us are not trained or supported to invite / allow this spiritual experience, but it doesn’t mean it isn’t available.
Many of us are merely unskilled in accessing the experience of love spiritually/directly
- this is why learning and practice can make Such a difference for most of us.

Blessings on your path of Love,
Wendy

Read more: posts about Love

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I: You are already a Spiritual Reader, Creator, Healer, Leader... so why is life so hard?

You are already a Spiritual Reader
You have inner leadings and intuition, you receive soul information - to see, hear, know, feel the truth within you.

You are already a Spiritual Creator
You are manifesting your experiences - inside and outside yourself;  co-creating your body, your life, and your world.

You are already a Spiritual Healer
Your presence matters - you are loving, supporting, serving, helping to make your world better - just Try to stop you!

You are already a Spiritual Leader
You are teaching others by who you BE, what you DO, how you are moving forward in your life - in the face of many obstacles.

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You are already a Spiritual Reader, Creator, Healer, Leader... Look out world!
What more could you want, could you need?
Well... for most of us, that isn't the case:
 
Many of us are flying Blind.
Our spiritual eyes, ears are closed to the very info we need to thrive.  We are unclear about the Energetic Information that is right there at our fingertips.  Someone (them? us?) was afraid of us seeing the truth, didn't like us marching to our own drummer - so we accommodated, we shut-down. 

Some of us are Hiding.
We are inundated with too much input!  Overwhelmed with our own and others emotions, energy, expectations...  We need to turn-down the volume - but instead we have turned it off.  We can learn to comfortably let life Freely Flow around and through us, but instead we contract.

Most of us aren't Shining like we could be.
We are hiding from our pain as well as our joy, from our Light, as well as our Darkness...  We believe the lies that we aren't good enough, don't deserve, should shut-up. We step off the 'stage' and hide in the 'wings'.  Then we ask: Why am I Always the Bridesmaid, but never the Bride?

A lot of us are, well, Stuck.
We are not letting Life and Energy Flow.  We are in Resistance.  We are worn-out by our own habits, and our isometric exercises - fighting ourselves!!  We have had too much of the pain, depression, trauma; we have had too much of the anxiety, worry; we've frozen.  We've fallen and we can't get up.

This was my experience, above.  This is my experience, below:

My clairvoyance opened up spectacularly about 20 years ago - but I couldn't control it, and I saw a lot of scary things!  I had been a big empath since I was young, trying to protect myself in an abusive home - it didn't help.  My spiritual information didn't seem to help me.

I was called as a healer about 20 years ago - but, although I could help others feel better, I only felt worse. I ended up with almost every malady of the massage clients that I helped to heal.  I meant to protect myself, but had not a clue what that really meant.  I was a Healer who couldn't help myself.

I spiraled down into years of chronic illness, bed-bound often, house-bound for years.  Nothing I tried made me better.  I was in terrible pain, no energy, and had layers and layers of symptoms that I could only see getting worse before I finally, horribly, mercifully died.  I was Mighty Stuck. 

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But, of course there is more ;)

Things turned around for me when I started doing a type of meditation that helped me shift, helped me utilize my spiritual senses, helped me talk to my body, helped me consciously connect with my Source, helped me let-go of fighting myself and Life as it is, helped me take charge of my life!

I started these practices over a dozen years ago: Everything inside me and outside me in my life shifted dramatically - some faster than others.  I got so excited that I started sharing that meditation, those soul practices, and other people's lives started shifting as well. 

I will share one opportunity to participate in our next training, in the next blog, right below this one.  But really, there are many pathways to transformation.  I implore you: DO NOT STOP until you find a path that works for you, whatever it is, and then Keep Going!  Because life is Awesome, you can savor it.  And the world needs you, we all need you to Thrive so you can make your own Unique contribution!

You are already a Spiritual Reader, Creator, Healer, Leader...
life is Delicious beyond your wildest dreams!  

Let it Be So,
Wendy

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II: You are already a Spiritual Reader, Creator, Healer, Leader... so Get Plugged IN - NOW!

(this post builds on previous, see here)


As a Spiritual Reader:
You can consciously open in a safe-container, and learn control of this psychic information, so you can consciously be your authentic self, open to your true path, serve in your own unique way…

As a Spiritual Creator:
You can deeply heal and get into alignment with the flow of Life.  You can have clear vision and free-will;  consciously and powerfully be the Captain of your Destiny.

As a Spiritual Healer:
You can safely and comfortably make an even wider & deeper difference in this world, you can give and heal others from a foundation of your own self-care, ease, grace, and empowerment.

As a Spiritual Leader:
You can multiply your positive influence, inspire each person you meet to their highest potential, as you allow heavy darkness to fall-away and let your Light to Shine!

Are you ready? If so - Get Plugged IN!

• Receive Inner Tools, Distinctions and Support

• Find you Power, your Brightness, where you Belong...

• BE yourself, ENJOY your Path, SHINE Your Light!

   
We offer a series of classes that assist you to:

• Own your abilities,

• Leverage your intention,

• Feel comfortable in your skin, and

• Make the difference only you can make in this world.

All of these opportunities start here:

    Introduction to Meditation and Soul Tools - we call it Psychic Tools 101.
    We have one more Intro Class starting before the Summer Break 2015.


Are you ready to Get Plugged IN! NOW?

• If so, plan for 6 Wednesday Evenings --  7 - 9 PM (June 17th - July 22nd), near Seattle Center.
• Or, if you would like a taste of this class before you commit!  Come as my guest on Wednesday, June 17th at 7pm.

    Please contact me with questions or to register at e-mail,  206-853-8603.

    See You Soon!!
    Wendy


    PS  These kinds of opportunities build on this intro class:

• Healing Hands - learning how to give Aura Healings, powerfully heal yourself and safely assist others…

• Astral Workshop and Retreat - learn how to access the power of your dreams and out-of-body experiences…

• Clairvoyant Awareness Program - a longer program where we open to reading and assisting others on a soul level - psychically…

• Spiritual Teaching and Leadership Program - a longer program where we open to BEing the change we want to see in the world… 

• Advanced Healing Program -  a longer program where we open to the many facets of Spiritual Healing, starting with ourselves and going form there...

• and much more!   SO Get Plugged IN! NOW!  

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What does Trust look like?

Question Asked:

What does trust look like in the different areas of your life:
relationships, work, money, spirit, other?

My answer Today:

Energetically,
For me Trust is a vibration, a spiritual gift.

For me, it looks energetically a lot like
Validation, Truth, Forgiveness, Gratitude, Certainty, Faith, Healing that is an expereince of our Wholeness... vibrations.
Add a little miracle energy and it looks like Acceptance!
(I define these somewhat specifically, you can see here for how I use these exciting words)

For me, Trust energy is not about what They DO, or how the World Occurs,
it is a fruit of spiritual nurturing that grows, and I allow to flourish - through me, and those around me - when I say YES to Life.


Physically, Trust looks a lot like
letting go, breathing, allowing
not frozen in fear,
not re-living past horrors, not worrying future catastrophes.

Relationships, work, money, life when I let in Trust,
it looks like ease and grace
...Mmmmm, Yummy.

When I don't let in Trust, it looks like
controlling,
trying-hard,
pushing my weight around, and
missing the mark, a lot
...Ahhh, Not Yummy ; )

For so long
I didn't Trust anyone, or anything - not really, not Down-Deep
(And I am Still Healing Deeper and Deeper Here ; )

But, after some Really Crappy Stuff went down with my Partner... and a Lot of healing after that.
I have started to own that the trust doesn't lie "Out-There" with the Other person, place, thing.
Trust can only reside within Me... or not.

Can I Trust my partner?
Turns out, I had the emphasis all wrong!
It wasn't Can I Trust my PARTNER.
It was CAN *I* trust my partner.

When *I* am in the Blessing of Trust;
Then, my world,
my relationships with people, places and things,
my life is IN Trust vibration.

I expereince a Whole Different World,
which is an entirely different expereince than when I reside in UN-Trust.
From this distrusting place, NOTHING is Ever Right, Comfortable, Safe, Count-on-able...

My INTERNAL experience Completely changes, depending on which vibration I am living-in.
AND, depending on which vibration I am living-in and creating-through in my life - extraordinarily divergent EXTERNAL outcomes manifest into the world.

I like my life A LOT more, when I allow Trust to Shower upon me, grow within me, and Flourish in my world...
(And so do the people around me, you can imagine I am a bit easier to Be With ; )


What does Trust look-like, feel-like, show-up for you?

in life, Wendy

Q&A: How do You personally define Abundance?

Question Asked: How do You personally define Abundance?

 
My Answer, Today:

I define Abundance (the energy /vibration /spiritual gift and the conscious spiritual practice of allowing this IN)

as the incredible richness, energetic possibilities of the Universe, of the Earth, of this earth-game;

as wild, wide-open, limitless opportunity;

as the waterfall of blessings from our Source, that we are all, always within
... but often limiting /resisting.

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So, Do I let that Abundance IN, or not? a little or a lot?

I believe this is determined by many factors, especially by Havingness.

I define Havingness, (the energy /vibration /spiritual gift and the conscious spiritual practice of allowing this IN)

as the ability to allow-in the Goodness:  what I have wanted, what I already Have, what I need.

Havingness is a YES to the abundance that IS.

It is opening the door when the UPS driver comes to deliver what I asked-for, ripping open the box, and playing with the contents.

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Can I enjoy what I Have? A little or a lot? Briefly or ongoingly?

I believe this is determined by many factors, especially by Gratefulness.

As a soul healer, from my expereince of a lot of these energies over time, I have come to define Gratefulness (the energy /vibration /spiritual gift and the conscious spiritual practice of allowing this IN)

as the ability to BE WITH what IS.

I can enjoy, access, integrate... what I can fully be-with.

What I believe is a really interesting side-note:
I notice this Gratefulness vibration (for me) is (usually) the same color as many other energies which are also BEing with What IS, including:

• Validation = the Truth (especially of how Awesome we/they/it is).
• Certainty = trusting my expereince of what IS.
• Faith = holding onto what Certainty helped us expereince, over time - through the dark night.
• Healing that is by Knowing/Re-Accessing/Remembering the Wholeness that IS, that we/they/it IS.
• Forgiveness = same as Gratefulness, same as all these - coming to the place in our soul, where we can BE With what IS.

All these vibrations, to me, usually look the same, but have slightly different flavors /tastes /textures.

• (A closely aligned energy) Acceptance - often occurs to me as the vibration above, with a little Miracle energy in it... and it is a Potent energy, indeed. 

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I know you just asked about Abundance,
but as most people understand /expereince Abundance, these 3 vibrations and practices sum up how I would generally define the expereince/process:

1. Noticing I am at the best buffet ever: ALL is a Gift (Abundance).
2. Filling up my plate, my fork, my stomach, my cells; integrating/assimilating nutrition & energy: I allow what I can have, within me, now (Havingness).
3. Savoring the deliciousness of this expereince, and enjoying the results of these nutrients and empowerment in my body and in my life and in my world: BE/DOing Yummy Thank You (Gratefulness).

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In conclusion:
I cannot say enough
- this is not a physical conversation, information, practice.

First and foremost, these energies /vibrations /spiritual gifts I am speaking about;
and the conscious spiritual practice of allowing this IN these blessings;
These are a soul practice.

Spiritually, the fruits that flow into our conscious expereince, our bodies, our lives and the world around us...
these are Blessings pouring from Spirit into our physical reality. 
Enhancing the joy and goodness and possibilities of our lives, in both our spiritual and physical experience.

Waaa-hooo.Thanks for asking, it was useful for me to think that through, and write it out.
Thanks for reading,
Wendy

When you Heal Yourself, you Heal the World

 
I am blessed to be half-way through Empowerment & Self Care for Healers series in Seattle, with an amazing group of budding Healers.

I was just writing some encouragement to them about a really important point, and I thought I would share it here:

• it can be called Self-care
• it can be called Heal yourself First
• it can be called lots of things, but whatever we call it, it is central to being a powerful, capable, sustainable healer/giver/helper/lover:

Put our Own Oxygen Mask on First.
If we do this, we can help others.
If we don’t do this, not only can we not sustainably help others; but things will go badly for us.
So, let's live to help another day!  Let’s put our Own Oxygen Mask on First.

IN ADDITION:  When they see us put on our oxygen mask they get modeling and permission to do it themselves!  Everyone around us shifts, become more capable, their needs are met more.
To shift metaphors: THEY learn to FISH, they don't need Our fish!

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Reiterating:
In the first class, I shared the illustration of:
Fill our own cup: let the Earth fill our cup, let the Universe fill our cup, let Life fill our cup, let our Source fill our cup!

When we allow our own cup to fill up, and to overflow - we can Always Be Full... and from that place of full to overflowing, we can always be giving/helping/loving/healing... with Ease - from the overflow!

If we refuse to fill our own cup, and instead pour out to others from our own cup - we will always be thirsty, and striving... always.  The giving will COST us.

When I am thirsty, I am always Looking around for water, Taking water from whoever has it, Complaining about no water.
I become an anti-healing in the world, because I am empty, needing - I can not serve others, the world, my Source, my calling... Because I have no time - because I have to find water; and I have no energy - because I am dehydrated!

IN ADDITION: when they see us fill up our cup, they get modeling and permission to fill up their cup themselves!  Everyone around us Shifts, become more Capable, Their Needs Are Met more.  THEY learn to receive within, from the Earth, from the Universe, from Life, from their Source.  They don't need Our water, they are drinking from the Living Water that flows from within each one of us!

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Reiterating:
Jesus said love others, AS you love yourself.
If we want to love and serve others,
we MUST love and serve ourselves…  let the Earth, the Universe, Life, our Source love and serve us…
If we want to Big love, Big serve, Big help, Big heal others;
then we Must allow/invite being Big loved, Big served, Big helped, Big healed ourselves…

IN ADDITION: when we fill up with love and self-care, we not only allow love IN, more and more we BE Love in the world.  Not only do the people we want to serve get modeling and permission to Allow Love IN.
They energetically learn how to BE Love in their world.
And THEN their friends, family, workmates get a taste of this Love habit too - and so on, and so on...
We send a ripple of Love and Care out through the world... a ripple that has no end.


I say this in dozens of ways in class,
I hope we all hear it, and then BE it, deeper and deeper:
When you Heal Yourself, you heal the World.

in life,
-Wendy

Can we Magically Change Ourselves and our World? Miraculous Possibilities Accessed when we Change Consciousness

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This past September, I facilitated a 3-day Advanced Healers Program retreat in the Methow Valley.  We enjoyed fun community, spiritual breakthroughs and the delicious energy and beauty of Momma Nature.  We also spent one of the mornings providing outdoor service to a couple of families who had been hard-hit by fire and flood this past summer.

On this trip I had an intense conversation with Madeline, she has less doubt than I do, more faith that we Are spirit in bodies, playing and creating in this world. 
I still struggle with my intellect, in some ways... although so much less than I used to! 
We went back and forth, in a friendly and respectful way about this reality, about how 'fixed' it is, how out-of-the-box miracles can be.

Some background:
I finally succumbed to psychic (soul) training after a many years-long chronic illness. It wasn't my first-choice, it was a spiritual imperative. Basically, I finally realized, after much suffering, that I had a choice: staying in my current consciousness and enduring a long, painful death OR being willing to shift my consciousness through psychic (soul) training.
I am stubborn, it took me many years to choose to shift through soul training, but I did choose life, and I did change ; ) 

I entered Psychic training with a vengeance, unstoppable to heal myself and assist others to heal, as well.  But, I had to manage my formidable intellectualizing, my natural body-doubt of all things anti-intellectual, anti-material.
And if there is one thing that is the opposite of the intellect (opposite of all the body defaults:  feelings, survival impulses, control games, etc) it is psychic (soul) training  - in which we learn to embrace the soul senses, our spiritual information and abilities.

HOW was I gonna do soul-training while my BodyMind was SO in-charge? 
I am a schemer, so I made a structure of separation and worked within that structure for a dozen years.
It went something like this: Because:
- Spirit is spirit, and physical is physical - and never can the two fully understand each other.
- Spirit is known by spiritual senses, not body senses; and vice-versa.
- Spirit cannot by measured, quantified, proven/dis-proven by physical means, by science.

Therefore (this is where I went awry): 
- All miracles (when things go differently than average/generally expected) have spiritual reasons as well as physical reasons behind them.
- Scientific laws always stay in effect.
- Even when crazy-amazing stuff happens, materialistic cause-and-effect is always in effect!

This system of limitation, based on the separation of body/spirit 'worked' for me. 
In the beginning it was necessary.
But, I believe in the long-run it has gotten in the way of opening to fast, easy, miraculous personal healing for myself and in assisting others.

I can see more and more clearly that:
- I am great with healing Process.  Amazing shifts within, with incremental shifts externally.
- I am less-great with wildly magical healing, mind-bending leaps, immediately manifest in the physical.

So, on our Methow service adventure, I talked to Madeline about this, I heard her say my scientific perspective was limiting, and agreed. But, her unreasonable faith in the malleability of this reality was not enrolling for me - just as so many other's perspectives before hers didn't shake me. 
Under all the spiritual veneer, I was a materialist; and as much as I wanted to open to an irrational leap - I could not, would not. 

But, in some new way, the gauntlet had been thrown-down.
Something had to change.
I just didn't know what, or how.

Some background:
I admire folks with a lot of faith/spiritual certainty, but their experience isn't my expereince. I need my own spiritual expereince, to grok fully for myself.  It is a pain in the neck to have so much doubt, so much stubbornness. I am like doubting Thomas:

²⁴ Now Thomas... one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came. ²⁵ So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!”
But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”  - John 20

I need to expereince for myself.  This isn't all bad.
Check out the end of the Thomas story:

²⁶ A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” ²⁷ Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.”  - John 20

This reminds me of the conclusion of the Job saga:
great blessing that is worth the dramatic roller-coaster, IMO:

      5“I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear;
            But now my eye sees You  - Job 42

So, anyway... About a month went by, after my conversation with Madeline about the malleability of this reality.  Then, I read a chapter called 'don Juan and Jesus' by Joseph Chilton Pearce - and boom!
What he said made Sense to me, it was like I read it AND revelation came.  And I shifted around this issue - spiritually, the shift happened fast and immediately - more slowly on a soul-level (where body and spirit dance, where rubber hits road)
Meanwhile, it is slowly integrating for the last 2 months.
And as I look back, A LOT has shifted in two months - hmmm.

The timing of all this is very interesting. I'd had the book on my bookshelf for 5+ years.  I'd bought it on a whim, when a local used bookstore closed and I filled a brown bag full of some of their last dregs books for $10. Then I had started actually reading it about a year or so ago.
It lived by my bed, and I would read it intermittently between library books and sci-fi/fantasy novels.  The book is Seeing Castaneda: Reactions to the "Don Juan" Writings of Carlos Castaneda, editor Daniel Noel.  Honestly, the book did very little for me, I rarely enjoyed it and got little insight from it. Each new time I picked it up, I wondered: Why am I reading this book?
But, I am all about inertia, so I kept reading - it wasn't until the book was almost over that I had my boom-moment ; )

I have no idea if reading the 'don Juan and Jesus' chapter will do anything for you.  I don't necessarily agree with all he says, but it was very useful for me, nonetheless.
I believe, when we have ears to hear / eyes to see spiritually, we can get revelation from reading a cereal box.
Meanwhile, it turns out the Original book:  The Crack in the Cosmic Egg: New Constructs of Mind and Reality, containing this chapter (9), page 153, is available free at this link - in case you are interested. An the reused book (as well as others by Pearce) are available inexpensively online - I am ingesting and integrating his books slowly over time (eating the fruit, spitting out the pits ; )

I am just starting to grok just how much we can Magically Change Ourselves and our World: 
Thanks for reading my story about the most miraculous change of all:
changing consciousness.

When we have a shift in consciousness, we can perceive and create something new - magically manifesting / attracting / co-creating a different experience:  other possibilities accessed through non-ordinary (not our usual expereince of) reality.
Fundamentally, we allow-in the blessing of a vibrational shift, and the song and dance of our lives (and all around us) shifts too.

I hope you enjoy your Magical Journey, wherever it leads!
Wendy

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Rock Your World with Master Jesus!

A few weeks ago, I got a call to a new focus in my ministry.
And then soon after, I had an opportunity to share this focus on a 1/2 hour radio show:

Rock Your World with Master Jesus!
Jesus Rocked his world, 2,000 years ago;
he ushered in a whole new vibration and a new paradigm of Divine Connection.

Jesus IS Light, Way, Truth, Life in his world,
and he calls US to Do the Same…in our own way.

Let's tune into Jesus spiritually: receive his wisdom and insights for us, and most importantly his spiritual frequency -
So we can ROCK our life, and our world, today!  LISTEN

If you want to hear more subjects, go here

Blessed Thanksgiving!
Wendy


PS - If you are in alignment with this message, I have a new online series coming up - please join my e-newsletter to receive details.  First session is:

Align with your Source, with Master Jesus: Let the Light IN (Online Meditation Workshop)

In early January starts:

Ears to Hear, Eyes to See:  Soul Tools with Master Jesus (Online Meditation Class).

Lynn Brown Radio Show: 7 rules of Wealth to Thrive By

I am not on this program (although I was holding energy for it)
But I thought y'all might appreciate Lynn Brown's sharing.
Lynn and I are offering 2 workshops together in early 2015 - check them out!

November 18, 2014 - Co-host Lynn Brown - 1 hour

Spirit and Money - CO Mingle your Financial and Spiritual Assets...

7 rules of Wealth to Thrive By

What's the big deal???....Money is only ONE form of Abundance and money is ONLY 1 form of abundance. And guess what? They are always intertwined! We all have limiting beliefs which we accumulate from our life experiences, ancestors, and past lives. These beliefs block our ability to receive the unlimited flow of abundance that the universe constantly offers to us.

(some of my radio programs are here)

Do you want to let Blessings IN, but you don't know how?

Blessings of Amazing Abundance and Possibility are around us, all the time and everywhere.
But, many of us are not letting them in!
Most of us, aren't letting IN, all the blessings that we could .

What are the nuts and bolts of Allowing Blessings IN...
into our bodies, our lives, our world?

My belief and experience is:
we Be in the waterfall of these blessings from our Source.
The water, these blessings, get all over us, and every one and every thing near us... and into our dear earth.

If we stay in this flow, stay with this Goodness... our Source fills us Up - all the way UP!
Which takes some time for most of us, because most of us are SO empty!!
But then, when we are FULL, then as we stay in these blessings, they pour out of us continually... as we let our Source keep pouring them in and through us… as fruit of the spirit.

We really do live in a constant flow of Grace, Beauty, Gratefulness, Forgiveness, Mercy... as well as all the Fruit that Paul names in the Christian Bible (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Gentleness, Humilty, Kindness, Self-Control {Seniority}, Faith) - and So Much More!!

WHEN we say YES to the flow, which our Source is always pouring on ALL of us -
At the Same Time, these blessings splash all over everyone we come in contact with!
The more flow we say YES to, the Bigger the flow, the More flow, the more everyone and everything is blessed!

Jesus lived in a Niagara of blessings,
and Everyone near him was transformed.
(unless they were a Big Fat Committed NO NO NO... wonderful, terrible Free Will ; )
…  Jesus showed them how to live this way then, and still he spiritually can show us how to live this way now!

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I think it is interesting to note:

• When we refuse this flow for ourselves, we can't really facilitate this flow for others... Actually, it is even more than that, when we refuse this flow for ourselves, we discourage this flow of blessings for others.
• On the other hand, when we refuse this flow for others, we can't really have the flow of blessings in ourselves.

SO, for example:
This is why forgiveness is SO very important!
... If we limit goodness for our 'enemies', we limit it in ourselves. Period.

It is not that the Universe does not pour forgiveness on us without end, because it does. But, we can't really let it IN... unless it is a waterfall that splashes on everyone!

If we do not allow the blessing of forgiveness of others, we do not allow blessing of forgiveness in ourselves.
This helps me understand what Jesus said: If you do not forgive, you are not forgiven; if you do forgive, you are forgiven.
WOW.

It is very important to note:
I am not saying we should TRY to forgive, or believe we forgive, or think about forgiving, or read books about forgiving, or do exercises about forgiving!
I am not saying we should beat ourselves up if we don't want to forgive!
I am not saying we should FEEL any different!

Feeling is body communication, and for most of us, our bodies have been though hell!
Our bodies should feel angry, sad, frustrated, UN-trusting, afraid... whatever they are.
We can meet our bodies where they are, love them, help them be safe, communicate with them, help them heal!!
We Must take care for our bodies!!

And meanwhile, what I am talking about is a spiritual choice - to say YES to God and the blessings of God.
I am speaking of spiritual experience of forgiveness.

Are you Ready for life to be EASIER? (secret:) You don't have to be GOOD (or bad!)

If we stop trying hard to be GOOD, look good, act good, do good...
we will run amok, our lives will go down-hill.
I let this LIE stop me, do you?

If we stop trying SO hard
to live up to some picture of what Good might be,
being some 'perfect' person living an 'ideal' life:

• We will be 'in trouble' (even more!), 
• Our lives will stop 'working' (even more!), 
• People won't like us (even more!)

It is useful to write this down!
It sounds somewhat feasible in the semi-conscious action of my life,
but consciously, on 'paper' in the Light, the absurdity becomes more obvious!

Are you willing to let your life get messy now and then?

When I clean out my closet (which, admittedly, rarely happens)
But, when I do - my relatively neat room, becomes a complete mess... awash is stuff everywhere!
The, of course, I get rid of some stuff, reorganize, and the room and the closet become more organized.
My efficiency rises, ease rises, aesthetics rise... but only after they take a big dip!

Same with letting go of ACTING Good.
Sure, sometimes thing will get wonky for awhile,
like all real life, in a world of change: life, relationships sometimes get wonky.
This is just par for the course.

We can't Control the vicissitudes of life, of people...
And it makes us crazy to try!

Want to Accept Life more on its own terms? 

I know ALL is One, Light, Love, Whole... spiritually;
But in this World of Opposites, I get Hooked.
I want to Win, I want to be Popular, Loved, Chosen, Right, Successful...
So I try to be Good, or at least Seem Good, Act Good.

But attaching to Good, is just living a Lie.
Life occurs as Black and While, AND everything in between.
Life occurs as Up and Down, AND everything in between.
Life occurs as Good and Bad, AND everything in between.

Do you want to find more Balance?

When we have been holding ourselves SO far to the White for awhile,
it is a natural balancing behavior to go careening off to the Black,
but soon we find a comfortable equilibrium, if we stop holding on SO tight.

A lot of times when we are experiencing big swings,
or fighting to Sta WAY far Left or far Right...
intense complying and/or intense resisting certain realities or parts of ourself.
We get Mighty STUCK in imbalance.

We are Not any more Free in resistance than we are in compliance.
We are Not any more free when we are attached to Up; than when we are avoiding Up, and therefore we have to be Down.

Many times, we find ourselves back and forth along one thin line, with no real choice,
caught in a dichotomy when there is a world of choices out there,
if we could just Lettttt Goooooo...

Are you willing to do your spiritual work today? so you can Enjoy more Rest for the rest of your life?

There is Freedom available for us, spiritually - and this rest can then leak into our physical life.
Let's let go of the yoke of Bondage to Good, and the other Ideals we have a strangle-grip-on.
There is Rest available for our soul, while playing joyfully in this world.

Let us labor to enter that rest, do the spiritual work that only we can do:

• Free ourselves from the dichotomies of this world,
• Be ourselves, and 
• Allow life to be SO Much Easier!

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