"He simply becomes friends with them and they give up the KKK on their own"

My friend Katie posted this link: This Man Spent Decades Befriending KKK Members. Hundreds Have Left the Group Because of Him

Katie said:

As an answer to the question, "What can we do?",
I offer this article.
If we want to see the hate dissipate, we need to engage in conversation.
Shouting from the roof top to deaf ears (and echo chambers) will do very little to move this country forward,
instead be mindful of your interactions with people.
Bring up the tough topics and discuss.
Be willing to listen AND share.

BTW, a documentary about this guy is now streaming on Netflix: “Accidental Courtesy: Daryl Davis, Race & America”

The article contains this powerful quote:

He never tries to convert the Klansmen. He simply becomes friends with them and they give up the KKK on their own.

From my perspective, 

this is how life actually works.

What we Resist, persists.

What we run-from, chases us.

Jesus said: 

Resist not evil.

Love your Enemies.

What if Jesus wasn't just being spiritually revolutionary, 

what if he was being pragmatic? 

when he said:

"do good to those hating you, 

bless those cursing you, 

and pray for those accusing you falsely"

With a deep bow to race,

I would also like to note some of the other issues that divide us:

• religion/spirituality
• sexual orientation
• gender and gender orientation

• nationality and country of origin
• political and economic theories we identify-with…
• As well as our everyday human disagreements and conflicts.

The healing power of 

Communication, 

showing-up, 

being-with...

is huge IMO/E.

From my perspective:

Acceptance produces change.

Hate can only hurt, not Heal.

What is your wisdom, experience, theory? 

In practice, is this easy/hard to live?

in life! Wendy

People Don’t Think of You as Much as You Think They Do

A friend share this post, which I really liked: 

8 Brutally Honest Truths You Need To Hear If You Want To Get Your Shit Together

and highlighted this: 

7. People Don’t Think of You as Much as You Think They Do
From our perspective, the whole world revolves around us, but there are 7 billion people who see it the same way. While we are not all inherently selfish or self-obsessed, we are all far more concerned with how we are perceived by others than how we perceive them.
So once again, embrace your true self and find peace in knowing that people are too concerned with themselves to give you as much as attention as you think they are.

This is a really important and powerful distinction, IMO.

Just Being With What IS: that I am not the center of the Universe for other people, is really powerful, and really helps me just show up, be myself, and do my thing. 

This distinction can help us set ourselves free - to allow the freedom that is Already Ours - so we can BE the Captain of our Lives.

I have found, if I show up to a general conversation and 

I have one interesting thing to share about what is up for me; 

just a few empowering sentences...
that is more than enough.
IF they listen that far, its unusual.

After that, if they Really are wanting to listen and share together, we can dance!
But, usually people are far more concerned with themselves, their sharing, their agenda, their needs...

People generally don't care very much about me, 

and most don't really want to know what is going on for me, 

or really want to have a Deep conversation...
Accepting this, and dancing with it, has helped me be happier.

If I really need to talk, or to be understood, or to be validated and supported - the best place to go, for me, is to Spirit.
From Spirit these needs are met, and I can be filled up with blessings:  I get what I need.
Then I don't go hungry to others, because chances are there is no cheese there.

When I come to a relationship full, not empty;
what I may receive from them is icing on the cake.
But either way, I get cake.
Yum, CAKE.

Jesus told me long ago, a similar thing.

I said HOW HOW HOW could you keep loving, and giving, and healing, and inspiring, and being so patient... loving in the face of all the BS?
To the last: 'Forgive them Father, they know not what they do...'

He said,
I was so filled with Love from Abba - so connected;
I was Love.

So, I was FREE.
I didn't need from them.
I only followed Abba.

Then, if they liked it or they didn't; if they loved me or they didn't - it was ok.
I was free to Just LOVE Them. 

And I could receive any love and validation they sent my way,
but I wasn't addicted to it, or manipulated by it.
I didn't need it, and it didn't influence me.

I was free to follow Abba and just love them,
no
matter
what.

This is very powerful teaching, from Jesus who is modeling an amazing way to live.
Jesus says this way of Freedom and BEing love in the world, is available to each one of us.

That is effin Good News, IMO.

Let's Play our Own Game

We live in a challenging time, and the battle-cry is RESIST!

even sometimes from the pulpit, from spiritual folks...

But, Jesus said: “resist not evil”

Why would he say that?

Clearly, we should not allow unproductive behavior, hurtful words and actions... right?

Well, Let's unpack this a bit.

1) Resistance is a powerful anti-blessing

Physically:

Resistance is a nature human reaction to what we do not like, to what we judge to be wrong. It is a behavior, and it is also a body-energy.

Spiritually:
Resistance is friction in our space, it acts like tar – holding US and Them in place.
As a soul-reader/healer, I see Resistance as the same color as Hate, Hopelessness, Despair, Punishment, and Anti-God energy.

2) Resistance is Futile

Resistance drives us in the wrong direction:

we go toward where we put our attention

what we put our attention on grows

“what you resist not only persists, but will grow in size.”
- Carl Jung, depth psychologist

“He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee.”
- Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche in “Beyond Good and Evil”


3) Resistance keeps us from playing our own game.

4) Resistance and its counterpart Attachment, keep us from being Clear, unhooked

physically, in electricity - If a material has a high resistance, it means electricity will struggle to get through it. The more the electricity has to struggle, the more energy is wasted.

Spiritually, energetically - Wherever we resist in our own space, it makes us vulnerable - its stuck and collects ouchies

matthew 7

1“Do not judge so that you will not be judged.
2“For in the way you judge, you will be judged;
and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you.

3“Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye,
but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
4“Or how can you say to your brother,
‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’
and behold, the log is in your own eye?

5“You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.


5) Resistance distracts us from doing what actually works – Acceptance, and then Action not Reaction

If we want to make a positive difference, we must Be with what IS.

In improv – playful yes is the only useful response, from there we can lead

“We cannot change anything unless we accept it.” 
- Carl Jung, depth psychologist

"You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete".
- Buckminster Fuller

No Problem can be solved by the same level of consciousness that created it
– unknown (but not Einstein)

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Jesus goes WAY beyond being Clear – non-Resistance

all the way to “love your enemies”

Talk about Being Love, playing your own game:

In the middle of being arrested,

First:
playing your own game: we do not play the same games as those we disagree with – we play a different game, from a different consciousness:

"
one of those who were with Jesus reached and drew out his sword,
and struck the slave of the high priest and cut off his ear.
Then Jesus said to him,
“Put your sword back into its place;
for all those who take up the sword shall perish by the sword.”
"
- Mat 26:51-51

Second:
Being Love:
“
And He touched his ear and healed him.
”
- Luke 22:51

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(some notes from an advanced class around resistance, in case anything serves you)

What is Resistance:

Resistance is an energy.
It's a body energy, you feel it in your body.
It comes with the territory of having a body.
It's the energy of not liking what IS: what is happening, what someone is doing, something about yourself or another person; something about the situation. It's the energy of digging in your feet and going "grrrr, grrrr, grrr."

Reactive

When you are in resistance, you lose your power.
When you resist something, you give up your seniority to it.

When you lose your power and your seniority, you cannot change whatever it is you are resisting.
You are STUCK. You can't move forward, you can't move backward.

When you see that you are in resistance to someone, you really are in resistance to yourself.
The first step is to ask yourself:
"What is the matching picture here that I don't want to see in myself."
If you can't see it in your own space, then you project it onto someone else.

I'm sure you've seen OTHER people do this.
"I will never be like my Dad!" using the same tone of voice that his father uses.

This is why we read other people -- to blow our matching pictures.
Sometimes it is easier to see the picture lit up in someone else than in yourself.
Then you find that picture in your space and blow it.

You know you've blown the picture when you feel neutral
-- you aren't in resistance anymore.
You've gotten your power and seniority back.
You can breathe again!

Sometimes it is "Who does this person remind me of?"
Someone who wasn't very nice to me?

When you are in resistance,
you cannot hear or have any valuable information that the person, or the situation, might have for you.
You're just stuck saying, "No, no, no, no, no!"

Running Resistance, Neutrality & Amusement

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Body of Glass

Body-of-Glass is the art of non-resistance and removing the pictures that collect as energy in our space. 
You become what you resist because when you are resisting something, you are putting your energy into the picture of whatever it is you are resisting.
By putting energy into the picture, you are validating it and making it more "real" (manifesting it).

We get rid of our pictures by exploding roses.
But you’re not going to explode every picture you have,
especially since we have trillions of pictures of life experiences we have had.

The older you get the more pictures you have, the more things you have done.
You don’t have to explode all the pictures to be in a body of glass,
you just have to explode the resistance.

You can still have the picture but you clean off and explode the resistance to it.

This tool is called a body of glass because the energy can pass right through, like a beam of light. 

The resistance in your space acts like dirty spots on glass that hold on to energy as it tries to pass through. 
We don’t turn into glass, we become “no resistance”. 

There is always a picture, doorway, or an agreement to allowing someone else’s energy in your space.
You do not have to de-energize all your pictures and thoughts in order to be immune to collecting energy from others. 
You can instead become a Body of Glass in which you have zero resistance. 

We create and use a rose to collect up resistance in our auras and remove it. 
Then we experience being a body of glass to invalidation, competition, and anger. 

Be a Body of Glass before any reading. 
Create a rose and pull out all the resistance energy in your aura. 

Do this whenever you know there is a lot of attention being placed on you;
whenever you are going to teach or give a talk and know there are some people that don’t like you or what you have to say.

Most psychics have not been trained to let competition go so it is a good idea to become a body of glass to let their energy pass through.
Also, it is a good idea to stay in amusement, smile, and laugh.
You do this and become a body of glass and your energy will stay high and there will not be such an energy drain.

Also, you will have more clients than if you are not so serious and if you don't let resistance stick to you.
Be sure you ground, run energy, become a body of glass, and get in amusement and get up at the end of the day and feel better.

Bring in a golden sun.

Chop Wood, Carry Water: the Body/Spirit Light-filled Dance of the Soul: Part 1 of Radical care for our Bodies and Engagement with our World, as our spiritual practice

Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water;
After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.
–Wu Li

Jesus keeps showing me, over and over, in the last months:

the most necessary thing for 

• Living IN, 
• being more FILLED-WITH, 
• Dancing more AS 

the Light, Love, Truth, Way… Spirit - in this world;

is nurturing care of the body - physically and spiritually.

... Which, BTW, directly leads to nurturing engagement with this world - physically and spiritually.

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Jesus’ words to me, about this:

Before enlightenment, nurture the body:  After enlightenment, nurture the body.

Why?  
Why does caring for our body matter SO much? 

• Because for our body to hold SO much Light, ever more Light (there is no end to this practice! ; )
• Our body Must be strong, have integrity... be healed, supported, nurtured, beloved, coordinated-with /co-created-with /communicated-with (and there is no end to this practice! ;)

The body-spirit relationship IS the dance of our Soul in this Universe. 

It IS the game - neither body nor spirit can be left behind. 

IF we want to play, 
IF we want to win, 
IF we want to Master this incredible opportunity of Life on this planet (which affects us and all realities throughout and beyond time);

We must fully engage body and spirit to partner in this world, together.

In life!
Wendy

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(Want more? you just read part 1 : )

Radical care for our Bodies and Engagement with our World, as our spiritual practice
Part 1 - Chop Wood, Carry Water: the Body/Spirit Light-filled Dance of the Soul
Part 2 - Engagement with our World 
Part 3 - Radical care for our Bodies
Part 4 - Amazing Gifts of Living IN the body, in this Reality 

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BTW:

This is great stuff all on its own

but it just so happens to be my overarching vision for a retreat I am offering this spring:

• Treat The Body-Expand The Soul

Everyone resonating for 3 days in:
- easeful, fun & graceful
- community, meditation, learning & practicing sessions, private healing sessions, melting into nature, private-time, connection-time...
Please check it out!

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Engagement with our World : Part 2 of Radical care for our Bodies and Engagement with our World, as our spiritual practice

If you haven't already, please see Part 1

Basically, it says:

It is essential, as we learn to BE the Light in this world, 

that we invest-in

Radical care for our bodies

and

Engagement with our World,

AS our an integral part of our spiritual practice.

so let's talk more about...

Engagement with our World

Some are called to be a monastic  - but less and less of us. 

More and more of us (this means You : ) who would have been monastics, 
instead we are learning to find a different soul balance:

Jesus called this IN the world, but not OF the world 
- to be Living Identified as Spirit, 
Fully Engaged IN the world, 
but not Identified WITH this world.

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Our spiritual need is supplied within, IN our soul - not from outside ourselves, in the world; 

AS (and then) we meet the physical aspect of our needs IN the Physical World.

SO, for example:

We can be filled with love, spiritually, filled up, and overflowing with love - to all around us - spiritually.

Spiritually, our need for love is met - we are filled with Love, we ARE love.

Meanwhile, we BE love in the world, we DO love in the world.
Naturally/then we dance love IN this world, with all our relations - in ways that are real in the world.

SO - what does this Mean?  What does it look-like when our Body & Spirit Team gets it together?
basically:

• Showing up - Present and engaged, here and now, with what is, with all our cylinders firing.
• Being Captain of our Life - Taking the Helm, in charge of ourselves and our space (our body and our energy system), and Acting into the world as we chose (instead of reacting)
• Playing to WIN - Kicking Ass - playing our Own Game, full-out (our Calling, our Unique Path: the Game we are Here to Play, that only we can play!)

And this is SO Good, such a Blessing when we as spirit fully engage with our world!

- the more we own-it, the more and more of a blessing it is to be here on this earth.

- the less we own it, it can feel like a curse to walk this earth (nasty, brutish, short...)

So, Let's Own it!

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Blessings on your Unique Path,

Wendy

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(Want more? you just read part 2 : )

Radical care for our Bodies and Engagement with our World, as our spiritual practice
Part 1 - Chop Wood, Carry Water: the Body/Spirit Light-filled Dance of the Soul
Part 2 - Engagement with our World 
Part 3 - Radical care for our Bodies
Part 4 - Amazing Gifts of Living IN the body, in this Reality 

.

BTW:

This is great stuff all on its own

but it just so happens to be my overarching vision for a retreat I am offering this spring:

• Treat The Body-Expand The Soul

Everyone resonating for 3 days in:
- easeful, fun & graceful
- community, meditation, learning sessions, private healing sessions, melting into nature, private-time, connection-time...
Please check it out!

Utilizing Inner Tools: Allow your Soul Life to be Simple, and your Attention Single

(I wrote this to encourage beginning class students, but maybe useful for others ; )

Every single tool is very simple, this soul practice is not meant to be complicated.
Jesus said - when the eye is simple/single, the body is full of Light ; )

Let your spiritual practice be simple - let go of the intellect trying to give you the run-around.
The harder we believe life is or has to be, the harder we make it. 
Let the life of your soul be simpler and simpler.

Let your attention be single - clear, easy, fun Focus is Key! 
Do one thing at a time and then let it go - trusting it to BE.
Juggling is a great example of this, in juggling - no matter how many balls in the air - only catching one ball at a time, only throwing one ball at a time. 

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You will hear about and practice the basic soul tools thousand of times, as you go on in training - you will hear about them in dozens of different ways - but it is all the same - simple simple simple:
this stuff is a minute to learn and a lifetime to master - let it be easy and fun!!!!!

This practice is like spinning plates:

Grounding - you intend connection between your lower body and the center of the earth... (You can use an image if you'd like - a tree, a laserbeam, a river, a bungee cord...)
You may find, as you allow yourself: receive support from the earth, body feel safer, release what you are done-with... that’s it.
let that BE, let that plate spin
then

Center of Head - bring your attention behind your 3rd eye and way back to center - between your ears (and up a bit) relax...  (You can use a candle flame image if you want to)
You may find, as you allow yourself: you are more in charge of your system, your vision is enhanced, you have a more neutral (spiritual not body) perspective...
let that BE, let that plate spin
then

Say YES to blessings from the Universe (you can use a Sun or Waterfall image) receiving Cosmic Energy -  I start beginners with Golden light - allow the energy to flow through you and to the earth...
You may find, as you allow yourself: you fill up with YUM, what isn't yummy is washed away...
As you deepen in this practice, all vibrations/frequencies/colors/blessings are available to you, go to the buffet and choose what you want - all you can eat!!
let that BE, let that plate spin
then…

on and on, allowing support, presence, shift in your space

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For those of you who are just learning the basic techniques, I have lots of audios, going into the basic tools from different perspectives - other ways of saying it - let me know if you want some for your own use - happy to share - whatever you need for your process…

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But it is Most important that you Trust yourself spiritually!
For each tool, spiritually: you say so, or see so, or know so or intend so - spiritually, as a consciousness - trust that it is done.

Remember this is not an intellectual or emotional or in any way a material exercise - it is spiritual - it is ALL intention.
You set the plate spinning, and let it keep spinning as you go to something else.
Check it later - if it is winding-down - renew it and go on with your life…

Your brain wants to run the show, understand it all - that is fine.
But you are spiritually doing this, the brain can’t do it (but it can get in the way ; )

As you are utilizing Inner/Soul  Tools:
Allow your Soul Life to be Simple, and your Attention Single
- your life will never be the same!

When you Heal Yourself, you Heal the World

 
I am blessed to be half-way through Empowerment & Self Care for Healers series in Seattle, with an amazing group of budding Healers.

I was just writing some encouragement to them about a really important point, and I thought I would share it here:

• it can be called Self-care
• it can be called Heal yourself First
• it can be called lots of things, but whatever we call it, it is central to being a powerful, capable, sustainable healer/giver/helper/lover:

Put our Own Oxygen Mask on First.
If we do this, we can help others.
If we don’t do this, not only can we not sustainably help others; but things will go badly for us.
So, let's live to help another day!  Let’s put our Own Oxygen Mask on First.

IN ADDITION:  When they see us put on our oxygen mask they get modeling and permission to do it themselves!  Everyone around us shifts, become more capable, their needs are met more.
To shift metaphors: THEY learn to FISH, they don't need Our fish!

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Reiterating:
In the first class, I shared the illustration of:
Fill our own cup: let the Earth fill our cup, let the Universe fill our cup, let Life fill our cup, let our Source fill our cup!

When we allow our own cup to fill up, and to overflow - we can Always Be Full... and from that place of full to overflowing, we can always be giving/helping/loving/healing... with Ease - from the overflow!

If we refuse to fill our own cup, and instead pour out to others from our own cup - we will always be thirsty, and striving... always.  The giving will COST us.

When I am thirsty, I am always Looking around for water, Taking water from whoever has it, Complaining about no water.
I become an anti-healing in the world, because I am empty, needing - I can not serve others, the world, my Source, my calling... Because I have no time - because I have to find water; and I have no energy - because I am dehydrated!

IN ADDITION: when they see us fill up our cup, they get modeling and permission to fill up their cup themselves!  Everyone around us Shifts, become more Capable, Their Needs Are Met more.  THEY learn to receive within, from the Earth, from the Universe, from Life, from their Source.  They don't need Our water, they are drinking from the Living Water that flows from within each one of us!

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Reiterating:
Jesus said love others, AS you love yourself.
If we want to love and serve others,
we MUST love and serve ourselves…  let the Earth, the Universe, Life, our Source love and serve us…
If we want to Big love, Big serve, Big help, Big heal others;
then we Must allow/invite being Big loved, Big served, Big helped, Big healed ourselves…

IN ADDITION: when we fill up with love and self-care, we not only allow love IN, more and more we BE Love in the world.  Not only do the people we want to serve get modeling and permission to Allow Love IN.
They energetically learn how to BE Love in their world.
And THEN their friends, family, workmates get a taste of this Love habit too - and so on, and so on...
We send a ripple of Love and Care out through the world... a ripple that has no end.


I say this in dozens of ways in class,
I hope we all hear it, and then BE it, deeper and deeper:
When you Heal Yourself, you heal the World.

in life,
-Wendy

Rock Your World with Master Jesus!

A few weeks ago, I got a call to a new focus in my ministry.
And then soon after, I had an opportunity to share this focus on a 1/2 hour radio show:

Rock Your World with Master Jesus!
Jesus Rocked his world, 2,000 years ago;
he ushered in a whole new vibration and a new paradigm of Divine Connection.

Jesus IS Light, Way, Truth, Life in his world,
and he calls US to Do the Same…in our own way.

Let's tune into Jesus spiritually: receive his wisdom and insights for us, and most importantly his spiritual frequency -
So we can ROCK our life, and our world, today!  LISTEN

If you want to hear more subjects, go here

Blessed Thanksgiving!
Wendy


PS - If you are in alignment with this message, I have a new online series coming up - please join my e-newsletter to receive details.  First session is:

Align with your Source, with Master Jesus: Let the Light IN (Online Meditation Workshop)

In early January starts:

Ears to Hear, Eyes to See:  Soul Tools with Master Jesus (Online Meditation Class).

Do you want to let Blessings IN, but you don't know how?

Blessings of Amazing Abundance and Possibility are around us, all the time and everywhere.
But, many of us are not letting them in!
Most of us, aren't letting IN, all the blessings that we could .

What are the nuts and bolts of Allowing Blessings IN...
into our bodies, our lives, our world?

My belief and experience is:
we Be in the waterfall of these blessings from our Source.
The water, these blessings, get all over us, and every one and every thing near us... and into our dear earth.

If we stay in this flow, stay with this Goodness... our Source fills us Up - all the way UP!
Which takes some time for most of us, because most of us are SO empty!!
But then, when we are FULL, then as we stay in these blessings, they pour out of us continually... as we let our Source keep pouring them in and through us… as fruit of the spirit.

We really do live in a constant flow of Grace, Beauty, Gratefulness, Forgiveness, Mercy... as well as all the Fruit that Paul names in the Christian Bible (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Gentleness, Humilty, Kindness, Self-Control {Seniority}, Faith) - and So Much More!!

WHEN we say YES to the flow, which our Source is always pouring on ALL of us -
At the Same Time, these blessings splash all over everyone we come in contact with!
The more flow we say YES to, the Bigger the flow, the More flow, the more everyone and everything is blessed!

Jesus lived in a Niagara of blessings,
and Everyone near him was transformed.
(unless they were a Big Fat Committed NO NO NO... wonderful, terrible Free Will ; )
…  Jesus showed them how to live this way then, and still he spiritually can show us how to live this way now!

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I think it is interesting to note:

• When we refuse this flow for ourselves, we can't really facilitate this flow for others... Actually, it is even more than that, when we refuse this flow for ourselves, we discourage this flow of blessings for others.
• On the other hand, when we refuse this flow for others, we can't really have the flow of blessings in ourselves.

SO, for example:
This is why forgiveness is SO very important!
... If we limit goodness for our 'enemies', we limit it in ourselves. Period.

It is not that the Universe does not pour forgiveness on us without end, because it does. But, we can't really let it IN... unless it is a waterfall that splashes on everyone!

If we do not allow the blessing of forgiveness of others, we do not allow blessing of forgiveness in ourselves.
This helps me understand what Jesus said: If you do not forgive, you are not forgiven; if you do forgive, you are forgiven.
WOW.

It is very important to note:
I am not saying we should TRY to forgive, or believe we forgive, or think about forgiving, or read books about forgiving, or do exercises about forgiving!
I am not saying we should beat ourselves up if we don't want to forgive!
I am not saying we should FEEL any different!

Feeling is body communication, and for most of us, our bodies have been though hell!
Our bodies should feel angry, sad, frustrated, UN-trusting, afraid... whatever they are.
We can meet our bodies where they are, love them, help them be safe, communicate with them, help them heal!!
We Must take care for our bodies!!

And meanwhile, what I am talking about is a spiritual choice - to say YES to God and the blessings of God.
I am speaking of spiritual experience of forgiveness.

Is Striving for Success leaving you Unfulfilled?

The trouble with the rat race is that even if you win, you're still a rat.
— commonly attributed to Lily Tomlin 

We can never be rich enough, powerful enough, beautiful enough
to make us feel happy and safe, to believe we are good enough...

Many of us feel empty, hollow, hungry...
like dogs at the track, running after a rabbit we can never catch.

And when we do get a bit of success, it is not long before we feel empty, hollow, hungry... again.
It is like eating candy bar for lunch, it does not satisfy our true needs.

This is because the way we are programmed around success in this culture is a Lie.
If we 'buy' all the information around what success IS and how we should go about it, we are unlikely to end up happy, fulfilled.
If we actually get anywhere near the goals this world set for us, we find out we have squandered our lives for fool's gold. 

The way to be happy,
to be truly successful,
to make a true difference in our world...

is not to follow the herd, not to play small (or to ACT big),
and certainly not to try to operate under all the lies we are told about who we are, what we should do & have, and how we should look, act & be.

The world doesn't need anymore widgets, any more cookie-cutter people.
The world needs YOU.
This is why you are here!
If you don't do what you are here to do, NO ONE CAN.


Being ourselves, aligning with our Source is True Success
... even though we have been programmed otherwise!

The secret to living fulfilled lives is to actually:

• BE uniquely ourselves.
• DO our unique calling/path/expression of us.
• Shine our unique Light.

Sure fine, But HOW?

One of many ways to answer this:
Jesus outlined a relatively straightforward process:
If we want to be well-fed, well-dresses, well-taken-care-of... successful adults, then we:

seek ye first the reign of God and His righteousness, and all these shall be added to you.
- Matthew 6:33

Seek first the Kingdom (Reign) of Heaven = seek spiritual reality and operate from soul information, not from physical focus, pulls of the body/flesh and worldly rules, programming, expectations, and limits.

and God's Righteousness =
  - Listening to and Believing the Voice the Leading of Spirit in our lives (Abraham believed God and it was reckoned to him as righteousness).
  - BEING in right relationship with our Source, in alignment with Spirit, Light, Love, Truth, our spiritual information and our Path...

- and all the necessities of life come to us = we are fulfilled, our needs are met, we are free from striving and worry, to go love and to serve in the world!


This means:
- BEING who we Really Are = a child in the royal family, a spark of the Divine in this world.
- Aligning with Light Love Truth
- DOING what we are actually called to DO by the Living God, who did not get laryngitis 2,000 years ago!

This means:
- Going to your Source
- Finding out who you are
- Filling UP with Glory
- And the going out to DO what ONLY YOU CAN DO in the world.

This is success beyond imagining, it is wealth beyond the dreams of avarice.
And it is available to each and every one of us...
Let's GO!

Sure fine, But HOW?
Well, that is a matter of Soul Practice - be in touch for a workshop, class, or personal session.

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Meanwhile, what Lies of Success do you want to release?
What Truths do you choose to embrace, to allow Your Fulfilled Life?


I would love to hear!

- Wendy

Do you believe Jesus can have Great Coaching on how to WIN the Game of Life?

We don’t have to WORRY about Life, Safety, Stuff…
All we need is right here for us.


When we follow our Spiritual Path, instead of the physical way imposed upon us, and driven within us:
We WIN.

When we Spiritually Die, then we spiritually rise:
We WIN.

When we invest where we are Spiritually Led, we reap incredible rewards:
We WIN.

If you have been wondering how to live life:
This is the Way, and
we inexorably WIN. We Can Not Lose.

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So, HOW?

Jesus said:

• Don’t build on Sand, build on Rock… by Doing the will of the Living God, following our unique path!
• Seek first the Reign of God, Right Relationship with God, and all the things we need come to us.
• I see my Father doing, and I do... and we are called to as Jesus did - he said we would do greater things than him.

This is not always easy, but it is straightforward:

• We open to our SOUL Information, our Spiritual Senses.
• We intend to ALIGN with ourselves and our Source: with our God, our Light, our Love, our Life, our Truth, our Way…
• We are FILLED & HEALED & FREED Spiritually.

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• We continually let go of the old self and the old ways (this sometimes feels like DYING, because it is!).
• We continually open to Life HERE & NOW, as it is, as we are.
• We WALK our own Unique Soul Path, which becomes clearer and clearer, as we walk it.

Do you Really want to WIN the Game of Life?

• Say YES to your Source, and get ready for the Ride of your Life!
• Your mind will be BLOWN by what you do, who you be, with-whom you go, where you end up.
• You inexorably WIN. You Can Not Lose.

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My meditations have been prayer in a different form.  By closing my eyes and placing myself into a truly un-distracted  state, I am able to have a deeper connection with God, where I reflect and seek clarity on different aspects of my life. 
 - Katie McCoy, NJ Shore


Wendy,
First off, thank you sooooo much for yet another amazing, fruitful, and productive session.  I really love working with you.
I wanted to share with you something I realized when I got home about why its so hard to do spiritual things at work.  I have a picture about how its not appropriate.  It has a lot of my dad's energy on it.  He always had a problem with my Christianity and other people knowing about it.  I will work on clearing that picture and his energy and hopefully things will be easier at work so I can grow and be more comfortable.
See you tomorrow!
- Joe Brisson, Seattle


Huge realization just now. Wish I could summarize it in a quick phrase, but.. It boils down to churches with lots of "God told me's ... but no real teaching of (or knowledge of) how to connect with the Divine. I am seeing how your ministry addresses connection with the Divine, and discernment of spiritual impressions.
People get pretty beaten-up by the whole "God told me" thing . . . because, "who am I to argue with The Man of God" . . . I don't have a lot of baggage with this stuff, but sure felt it up-close-and-personal. Years ago, in a little evening church service, one of the pastors told us: "We've all got thoughts rolling through our mind day in and day out ... so what you want to do is pay attention to that stuff, and the loudest voice, well, people, That's God." I almost screamed. Wow. That's dangerous!
Spiritual Discernment is the point.
- G, Seattle


I had such a great meditation this morning….
I love you so much!!!! You’re AMAZING. Thank God for you. You are a Huge blessing to the world.
- GG, Seattle


Just keep expanding your tent...sooo delighted for you and Lord knows the world needs you.
 -SL Central NJ


Thank you Wendy!! :)))) <3 I felt beautiful the next day from all that dark energy being lifted. ;) !
- NK, Miami


Hey Wendy, I just want to say: Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!
I am going to be practicing all that we reviewed today. I am in so much gratitude.
You're such an angel, Wendy. Your help is being used, and appreciated greatly!  
- LH, Richmond, VA


(after first session)
Wendy
Thank you for your time with me, and for sending these audios and offerings to help me more.
You are such a true gift and friend.
love & blessings,
- KM, Ohio


Love, love, love! Thank you Rev Wendy Wolf, for this important reminder! God is an unstoppable force in my life today.  His light permeates every area of my life. Through meditation I have come to KNOW God.  Today, I can maintain conscious contact with my creator all throughout the day. His love, care and protection flows through me and I have so much gratitude for His love and light!  Today will be my first day trying to give up refined sugar, chocolate, desserts, etc. It is hard because sugar is in everything! But I am taking baby steps. I couldn't sleep last night because I was so nervous about this! Can you believe that?!
-Danielle Peterson, Greater Seattle Area


Hi Wendy,
I am VERY excited for this class and everyone in it!  What a blessing! ...Thank you for the opportunity to participate in your classes!
Much love,
- DL, Seattle


Hi, Wendy.  Just listened to the recording of our session.  The last 15 minutes were especially beneficial, thank you for guiding me through that and helping to maintain a flexible focus.  Let's do it again, soon - Jesus encourages it.  <3,
-JS, Seattle


Are you are a magical woman of wisdom in my world Wendy Dear. I have so much respect for you that it's coming out my ears. Even though we both are busy, you remain valuable to my heart.
-GH, MO


Thank you, Wendy!  I feel exactly like I do after a massage -- physically tender and a little out of it, but relaxed, which I think is the growing part you were talking about...
You gave me a lot of good feedback and I appreciate the healing work.
Something does feel shifted and I talked to God in the car on the way home -- it was nice.
I also laughed out loud remembering your comment -- that was quite funny.
Thank you again -- I will be in touch for another healing session down the road.
 -SB, Olympia WA


God is amazing. And, you and your talent are amazing!
-KS, Seattle


So many blessings right now and so thankful I have you as a blessing to talk to about those blessings!  Your support of me in all my life, but especially these past few years as we've been working together, has been so strengthening; and I am soooo thankful to you for all you have done for me in aiding me on my journey to being the me God has created me to be! 
 - KM, Central PA


It has been a delight to observe you truly come into your own -  through much hard work, dedication and commitment!!!   Your sharing is sooo you, authentic, playfully humorous and simply to the point.  Lord knows we need more of that in this world... keep sharing.
Joy and Peace,
- MS, NJ Shore


I can really feel how far I've come when I have hard time and I don't need to talk to you or some other PERSON to feel all right again.  Hope i can give back to others, like you have for so many.
YAY FOR GOD!!!!!!
-RG, Seatttle


Ok, Wendy. God has told me clearly that I am ready and it is time to continue. I really need some spiritual direction and soul counseling with you. There has been a lot that has come to light in my life that still has me shocked. I don't know what God is doing, but he is doing something. He's moving fast, I have to get ready for whatever is coming.
I am seeing a regular counselor about twice a month, and it's helpful, but he can't give the spiritual direction that I need. He is very non-directive and I could use someone to ask hard questions, help me dig deeper, help me hear from God.
I need to be able to talk about everything, and I can't do that with anyone here.
Looking forward to hearing from you,
-WL, AL


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Forgiveness: Not by might nor by power, but by Spirit

 

Most of us have tried to forgive in the past, to varied success;  we end up:

• thinking about it,
• complaining about it,
• feeling crappy & stewing about it,
• re-living it,
• yelling or crying about it,
• TRYING to let go of it!

Although I have been known to indulge in the above activities,
I have found another way that Really works for me:
Allowing the blessing, the ENERGY of forgiveness into my system.

When I spiritually allow-in forgiveness vibration,
it miraculously shifts my energy:
my thoughts, my feelings, my Resistance to letting-go of the past, my Attachment to my pain, hurt, anger, resentment and my pictures of what I think I need for a ‘fair’ conclusion.

All this begins to melt away,
and a more delicious experience grows within me,
as I allow this spiritual blessing IN and my vibration shifts.

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For me forgiving others is hard enough,
forgiving myself is the really difficult part for me.
What about you?

Trying hard to forgive (myself or others) never got me very far,
rather I have found the miraculous power of forgiveness
truly is by Grace, not by force of will.

We are constantly being showered with mighty blessings,
which we rarely let IN
– how do we experientially allow blessings?

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How about try this:
to let in this energy,
it can be as straightforward as being grounded and present,
then asking for the spiritual blessing of Forgiveness.

I can see, know, intend, allow a waterfall of Forgiveness energy
from the Universe
into my body and the space around me.

From here we have the potential to shift,
sometimes subtly, sometimes profoundly.

This higher vibration can fill us with the blessing of forgiveness,
and wash-out all the other detritus.
It can be that easy to shift spiritually, if we let it.

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I’d like to say more about this life-changing process of forgiveness.

The Ascended Master whom I know best regarding his physical life, is Jesus.
Jesus spoke about forgiveness, a lot actually.

One thing he said that kind of wraps-up his perspective for me, is:
“in what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged.”

I used to think of this saying as a tit-for-tat kind of thing
– a Judge sitting there, looking at what I did and having me ‘reap what I have sown’.
If I was/wasn’t willing to share my toy, therefore the Cosmic-Cop would increase or limit my access to more toys ; )

It turns out that the very-same judgement that I live-in and I allow for others,
Really Is what is applied to me.

But, having looked at this with my spiritual senses for quite a while now,
I have a very different perspective on the mechanisms behind this process.

God/ the Universe/ Karma isn’t rewarding or punishing me!
It is a matter of the vibration I am inhabiting.
From my perspective, the waterfall practice/analogy is really powerful here.

What I notice spiritually is:
if I am in the waterfall of Forgiveness,
all those around me are in it as well.

If I allow you to be in a waterfall of forgiveness,
then I am in it too – I have to be!

So what I allow for myself, you get.
What I allow for you, I get.  It is that simple.

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This is not only a tremendous key in our forgiveness process, in my experience,
but in all aspects of our lives: love, peace, joy, trust, healing…

The vibrations I allow for myself, you get.
The blessings I allow for you, I get.
What an easy, beautiful way to transform our world!

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Ok, so back to forgiveness.
The way my spiritual senses perceive Forgiveness,
the vibration is very similar to the vibrations of Validation, Truth, Certainty, Acceptance, Gratefulness, and Healing that is an experience of the Wholeness we Already Are.

This seemed really strange at first,
because from a body-perspective, from my experiential, intellectual and emotional perspective,
these ideas had been very different things for me.

But, eventually I realized what they had in common:
They are all about ‘Being with what IS.’

Powerfully, spiritually ‘BEING with what IS’ opens up a whole new world to us.
Many of us are fighting, judging and resisting what IS.

It is can be life-changing to start allowing the energy of ‘Being with what IS’
to shift our vibration, as
well as how we experience ourselves and our world.

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I work with energy.
I believe, practice and experience that when we shift our energy (change spiritually),
everything inside us and around us changes. 

And it does.
We create our lives from the inside-out.

And, at the same time, shifting energy can assist us to change our mind, change our heart, change our experience, when we deal with things from the outside-in.

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There is much wisdom in the world to support us in this process of ‘BEING with what IS’.
One that has been a useful tool for me is The Work of Byron Katie.
One of her books is called ‘Loving What Is’.

For years now, I have one of her quotes right by my bed, so I see it when I sleep and when I rise:  ‘Stop arguing with what IS!’
… How Powerful is THAT?!



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Ok, so back to forgiveness.
Isn’t it interesting to apply the distinctions and power of ‘BEING with what IS’ to Forgiveness?  Well, I think it is!

What I have noticed, as a spiritual healer for the last decade:
at its core, Forgiveness really is fundamentally ‘BEING with what IS’ on every level of our being.

What they did, what I did, what happened, how that affected me, them, the world….
this can just become a FACT, a past-reality;
without a big-long story, without a truck-load of emotionality attached.

I really can stop suffering, stop living in the past, and just BE;
and I can let them do the same.

Amazingly, the healing progression over time can end up in ‘Loving What Is’.
It really can.

And the process is not because we are mighty forgiveness machines, 
or because we power/fight-through it,
it is by allowing the spiritual gift of forgiveness.

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I would enjoy sharing so many more blessings about forgiveness, for ourselves, for others; but that is enough for now.

I hope you allow you and your world to be continually blessed,
by letting-in waterfalls of forgiveness.

And I trust some of the things I said above
can assist you to move along in your process of allowing forgiveness:
for yourself and for others.

I pray you are that much more open to savor
a Happy Holiday Season and an Awesome New Year!

Blessings on your unique path, Wendy

Shifting Consciousness, Spiritually

When Problems/challenges arise,
it helps me to remember that God is SO Big,
even when my vision and resources feel So small, sometimes.

When I try to fix my life, or figure out who I should be, or what I have to do - I often stay stuck.
But, when I spiritually put on the Mind of Christ: spiritual perspective, Christ Consciousness;
Everything Shifts inside me and in my world, naturally, effortlessly.

When I Try to be Good, to Act Loving, to Perform as I believe Jesus would have:
I get off track - Because I am being physically focused, no matter how 'holy' my intention.
When I focus spiritually, bring my spiritual eyes back on Jesus, the author and finisher of my faith, everything changes in and for me.

I am Not speaking of focusing on the Jesus of Religion, of Christian Faith and Practice, of Ethics or the Bible.
I am Not relying on who I think Jesus was or what I think he did when he walked the earth...
I AM speaking rather of who Jesus is Now, as spirit:  always spiritually present with us, available to each of us now, in intimate relationship, in spiritual communion.

From this spiritual perspective, 
problems/challenges are an invitation
back to my spiritual center: alignment with God and my unique path.

My challenge is:

• Really Allowing God's abundant, limitless blessings IN, and
• Allowing my eyes to shift from:
• flesh: my body, my needs, my shortfalls/brokenness and my myopia;
• to spirit: living as Jesus, as God's Way, Truth, Love, Life, Light manifest in our world.

SO many of us Mean to do all this, Think about this, Sometimes feel this and sometimes don't.
We hunger for God; to experience God's Blessings, Fruit, Leading and Manifestation in our lives, and in our world.
And many of us struggle with HOW to do this.  

THIS is the focus of my ministry. Please see here for info.

This post was inspired as a followup response to someone who is struggling, after they responded to the previous post.

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